Woman Hosts Male Afghani Asylum Seekers

It may come as a concern and surprise to some, I know, if comments and veiled expressions are [-]. And yes, I’m both delighted and excited to be host ‘mom’ to several young Afghani men who will be


On March 18th, I received the most earnest telephone call from a young Muslim man who had gotten my contact information from Inland Refugee Services, Vancouver. I’d been considering hosting students but with the to host some refugees, and have since been transforming the basement with kitchenette (channeling you for design ideas), to receive 4 young Afghani men who are here as political refugees. They are all very kind, compassionate and highly educated people, a doctor, a CIO from the Afghani Presidential Palace, a LT commander and an IT specialist from ANA – all speak very good english in addition to 3-4 other languages. The older fellows have families of their own, each with 3 young children … very difficult time for them.
Much of what is needed has quickly been donated but I’m still looking for 4 new single mattresses and bed frames – 2 matching sets would be best. Some Persian/ style carpets would be hugely appreciated, too. I hope to have everything ready by April 11th -13th so they may move into their new home away from home. Thus far I’ve contacted the BCMA, BCMuslim Food Bank, Mennonite Society, Habitat for Humanity Store, Salvation Army, church groups, etc., and many individuals for their support.
I also suggested to my new ‘guests’ that we may consider buying some rugs from Afghanistan and having them shipped over by a friend, and that I’d cover the cost (there’s hardwood). This seemed to cheer them and give more reason to feel that the space is their own – they’re quite unaccustomed to using table and chairs in their homes but I’ve provided one. And though their deep humility would never allow them to make such a request, I know they would feel more comfortable with carpets and pillows.
Kindly consider supporting this request and sharing it with your contacts. Also, if  you think of any other organizations or individuals whom I might approach, please let me know.

NEARLY 60m people were forcibly displaced across the world by conflicts in 2014 (either within their own countries, or to other nations as refugees). It is the highest number ever recorded according to a new report by the UN High Commissioner for Refugees (UNHCR), and equivalent to the population of Italy. The figure is 8.3m higher than in 2013, driven mainly by the war in Syria, the advance of IS in Iraq and resurgent conflicts in Africa.

The number of refugees grew from 11.6m to 14.4m (excluding 5.1m Palestinians) over the same period globally, the biggest annual increase seen since 1990. Syria is now the main source country of refugees, overtaking Afghanistan, which had held that unenviable position for more than 30 years. By the end of the year, 3.9m Syrian refugees had fled (a sixth of its population), and another 100,000 have left so far this year. Of the ten largest source countries in 2014, six are African. Continuing conflicts in Somalia, South Sudan, Congo and the Central African Republic are taking a heavy toll. Eritreans are fleeing their repressive country in droves, often via neighbouring Ethiopia. Despite a population of only 6m, Eritrea is the second-biggest source country of illegal crossings by sea to the European Union after Syria. And the rise in the number of conflicts worldwide has made it harder for people to go home. Over 6m refugees have been in exile for five years or more and only 126,800 returned to their home countries last year, the lowest number in 31 years.


The western media somehow forgets that millions of refugees driven from wars in Syria, Afghanistan, Sudan or Somalia have sought asylum in neighboring countries, and only a small fraction are daring enough to make the extra hundred-mile journey under treacherous conditions to Europe. Just one statistics will throw all this European privileged problem into the trash bin: Pakistan, Turkey, Jordan, Lebanon and Iran alone have more than 8 times the number of refugees as compared to the top European refugee-intaking countries of Germany, France, UK, Sweden, Italy, the Netherlands, Serbia (and the rest of Europe is just negligible).

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Pakistan has 1.6 million Afghan refugees alone out of over 2.5 million refugees. Turkey now has 1.6 million refugees.  Lebanon, which has a population of only 4.2 million, now hosts more than 1.1 million refugees, or 1 refugee for every 4 residents. Jordan, which has a population of 6.3 million, hosted more than 2.5 million refugees in 2013 – more than 1 refugee for every 3 residents at the peak of the Syrian influx. Iran also has more than one million refugees.

In Africa, Kenya has more refugees form Somalia than all of refugees residing in Germany. Algeria, Ethiopia and Chad each hosts double the number of refugees as France or the UK. In Asia, China, Bangladesh and India each hosts as many refugees as France or the UK – the list goes on…

Moreover, this refugee problem is not new, and it has had a profound impact on the security of some of their host countries: For instance, Pakistan has been hosting over a million Afghan refugees for the better part of last decade. Their disputed settlements in Pakistan have contributed to Pakistan’s rising sectarian violence – and this is not even considering the lawless tribal region of Pakistan bordering Afghanistan where many Pakistanis blame Afghan militants of infiltrating the country and promoting terrorist attacks. Similarly, Kenya has hosted a large population of Somali refugees ever since the 90s – and needless to say, many Kenyans can only lament at the Somali influx when thinking about the hundreds of terrorist incidents since civil war broke out in its neighbor.  In other parts of Africa, millions of refugees from the conflict in Darfur, the Boko Haram insurgency and the Ivorian/Liberian civil wars of the past decades have settled in often already poverty-stricken countries of Chad, Cameroon, Uganda etc.  In Asia, millions of refugee from places like Myanmar or North Korea have constantly streamed into neighboring countries or similarly try to cross the ocean to Australia. Again, that story is often forgotten.

To many in the US or Europe, this refugee crisis is finally becoming something tangible, rather than an abstract concept from the distant wars of Africa or Middle East. But for the citizens of the majority of countries in the Middle East or Africa, dealing with refugees and seeing refugee camps is a normal everyday phenomenon. I have come across numerous Somali refugee camps in Kenya, Liberian/Ivorian refugee camps in Ghana, and Afghan refugee camps in Pakistan. Once you are in those countries seeing how they are able to adapt to this humanitarian/moral challenge, the Europe squabble seems very small and cowardly.

So yes the migrant/refugee issue is now a headache for the EU. But once again, the western media is playing catch-up on this critical international issue that has profoundly affected the geo-politics and national security of many world regions for the last couple of decades. Now the EU political wrangling is finally propelling this problem into the global spotlight…